A surprise proposal is often a tearjerker moment that even strangers appreciate. Whether the soon-to-be groom decides to be spontaneous or plans the event up to the smallest detail, the proposal will be one of the best moments of your life. But this is only the start for you.
Being a bride is one of the most beautiful yet stressful moments of your life. Besides checking all the responsibilities around organizing the wedding and taking care of every small detail, you must decide on the wedding dress that’s both comfortable and stunning.
Considering the diverse wedding dress market, you have plenty of options to choose from ― mermaid dresses, A-line gowns, or princess designs are pretty common for brides, but not all fit most body shapes.
But until then, let’s see what a proposal should look like.
Write the Speech
The speech before popping the ring is essential to get in the mood. It could highlight your journey as a couple, your future wishes, or a simple question. The idea is that the proposal should be genuine and encompass your strongest emotions for your partner.
If you’re nervous about it, these simple tips will help you write an impactful speech:
- Start with how you met each other;
- Continue with telling them what you love about them;
- Compare the present moment with a shared vision for the future;
- Ask the final question;
Choose the Ring
The ring is necessary but has recently become less important for young couples, especially when it comes to its financial value. The ring is more of a symbol or a promise, so it could be as basic as possible. Of course, choosing a more complex one with single stones or one made of unique metals will be appreciated.
It’s ideal to discreetly measure your significant other’s ring measurements for the proposal to truly be a surprise. This can be easy if they already wear some types of rings. If not, maybe you can measure their ring finger while they sleep.
Decide on the Venue
The venue can also be spontaneous, including a park, the place you met, or the sport where you had your first date. However, if you want to make things more special, you can choose a venue or contact local spots that can help organize it.
You could also contact a photographer to capture some moments during the proposal to keep these memories forever. Your partner will appreciate the surprise and the commitment, but they will most likely be too emotional to seize these aspects at the moment. So, get ready to pop the question!
Get Prepared for What’s to Come
The wedding will naturally follow after getting engaged, and this means stress is upon you. Hiring a planner is best, but considering you’re on a budget, starting right away with planning is ideal. This includes:
- Writing the guest list;
- Looking for venues;
- Setting a date for the wedding;
- Searching for vendors;
However, starting with a budget is necessary to have a decent and affordable wedding. Sometimes, it’s best to invest in experiences rather than tangible things. Of course, this doesn’t necessarily apply to your outfits, for example, as the bride (and the groom) have the opportunity to look their best.
Start Looking for a Wedding Dress
Now that the fun moment has slipped away, it’s time to start planning. As a bride, you’ll have many responsibilities, but choosing the dress is the most pressing one. Not deciding on a budget is the first mistake to avoid, both for the dress and the wedding.
Having a clear budget helps narrow down the options for your wedding dress, which will help you make a better decision. This will keep your expectations realistic, considering you’ll have a budget for the wedding as well, so that you won’t go overboard at the first wedding dress you see.
The prices for wedding dresses depend on the manufacturing times, the types of fabric, and the number of embellishments in the gown. These factors might make it trickier to choose a dress since it may seem like a basic wedding dress should be affordable, but even Meghan Markle’s simple dress is known as one of the most expensive wedding dresses.
Be Flexible About What You Want
Focusing on only one style can be a disadvantage, especially from the perspective of your budget. It’s always a good idea to be open to various dress signs that can still highlight your best features and check all your needs but be different from your initial plan.
That’s why analyzing your body shape and understanding how different styles benefit your looks can help you make a faster decision and not regret it. For example, the pear-shaped body features that include a more petite upper body and broader hips don’t look good only in A-line dresses but also in empire waist gowns and strapless necklines.
Prioritize Comfort
The wedding day will be pretty packed, meaning you’ll be on your feet for most of the time. At the same time, you’ll have to go to different locations and have your pictures taken, so you’ll be busy like a bee. Well, wearing an uncomfortable dress will surely not contribute to tiredness, whether it’s too tight or is made of non-stretchy fabrics.
Therefore, it’s best to put comfort over looks. Finding a dress that checks both requirements might be challenging, but it’s not impossible, so try taking your time to research to find the perfect dress in which you will feel light and beautiful.
Final Considerations
A surprise wedding proposal is a unique moment in your life to show your significant other how you feel about them. Therefore, making it a flabbergasting moment will surely be the subject of a story to tell your grandkids about.
So, writing your speech, choosing the ring, and analyzing your venue options are ideal starting points. However, remember that the responsibilities following, such as choosing the wedding attire, are as pressing.
